Spring cleaning had recently descended upon our basement and it was time to purge. I began with my daughter’s bin of elementary school work. As I read each worksheet and admired each drawing, I couldn’t help but remember how far we had come.
We adopted Ani from a Bulgarian orphanage when she was five years, 11 months. She weighed 23 pounds. She had never learned to chew or sip. She had never taken a bath or had her hair washed. She had never brushed her teeth. She had never been comforted, rocked or held. She didn’t know Bulgarian, but “spoke” infantile babble. She didn’t understand how to play with toys. She was a little lost soul, but one with a magnetic smile and unwavering spirit.
“Other Health Impaired Issues” Diagnosis
Upon bringing Ani home, we requested special education tests be administered. The tests confirmed what we had initially suspected – Ani was diagnosed as cognitively impaired. However, the school psychologist felt Ani did not warrant the autism label and she was given a 504 diagnosis – “other health impaired issues.”
As Ani began her academic career, her speech teacher, a neighbor of mine, gave us the best advice for supporting her new life – “Give her experiences, as many as possible. Get her in the community. Take her everywhere you go.” We followed that advice. Ani attended nearly all of her brother’s hockey and football games. She went with my husband to the liquor store and car wash; she went with me to the grocery store and Target. She went where we went.
Her teachers’ focus was helping Ani to communicate. In the bin were dozens of “completed” worksheets; often black outlines of ordinary household objects, common foods, and everyday clothing with Ani’s recognizable scrawl underneath the picture. The goal was to have Ani cut out the object or food or clothing, glue it on another sheet of paper and label it. Her teacher’s note often said that Ani grew “tired” after cutting, gluing and labeling. For a little girl who had been rocking her life away, this was a lot of physical, mental and emotional work.
Prior Knowledge
As I was sorting through the bin deciding what to keep and what to toss, I saw a green piece of construction paper with the same recognizable process – cut, glue, label. However, these pictures were much more complicated. There was a picture of a lily pad, a tadpole, and cattails, and other water-themed black outlines. The teacher’s note began, “Ani matched these these words, then she identified the pictures. She had trouble looking past the first few letters when matching, and she also had some trouble identifying some of the pictures.”
This was a second grade assignment, so Ani had been with us, in the United States, for about three years. I wondered how many typical students living in the United States their entire lives would be able to identify those items? Nearly 18 years later, I realize now how shortsighted that assignment was.